Understood the person and Nature of humankind

The first step to increase your skills in being connected with the person (the human relations that was successful) was to understand the person and nature of humankind exactly.

For understood the person and nature of humankind only the matter recognised and acknowledged the person as the person as they the existence, not what was thought by us/think about about them, not we who wanted them to become what.

The person usually really is interested to themselves. And not was interested to us. In other words the other person of ten thousand times more was interested to himself than was interested to us. And on the other hand! We usually more are interested to ourselves than was interested to any other person in this world.

Remembered! that the human action was arranged by his thoughts personally. These characteristics were very strong in himself humankind, so as thoughts that stood out in the affection were satisfaction or the enjoyment that was received by the giver with gave, not received.


This knowledge gave the message that the person especially was interested to themselves, giving the foundation that was firm for you to be connected with the person. So this actually was the key to the life for us to realise that the person especially was interested to themselves and not to us.